The Question Every Parent Asks
We're raising kids in a world that's going cashless fast. Recent studies show over 80% of transactions now happen digitally. But when it comes to teaching our kids about money, should we stick with the piggy bank or jump straight to apps and digital wallets?
Here's the thing: there's no single right answer, and that's actually good news. Both methods teach valuable lessons. Your job is figuring out which fits your family right now.
What Cash Does Well
Physical Money Has Real Advantages
It's concrete and touchable. For younger kids especially, coins and bills make money real. They can count it, sort it, watch it pile up. Numbers on a screen? That's abstract. A jar full of quarters? That's exciting.
There's built-in friction. Handing over cash hurts a little. Kids feel it when they give you a $20 bill and get change back. That physical exchange creates natural hesitation, which is exactly what we want them to experience.
It works everywhere, always. No internet required. No app to learn. No device needed. Your six-year-old can take $5 to the corner store without needing your phone.
But Cash Has Downsides Too
It gets lost. We've all done laundry and found soggy dollar bills. Or watched coins scatter across the car floor. Physical money disappears in ways digital money doesn't.
It doesn't teach digital skills. Eventually, our kids will manage money on phones and computers. Cash doesn't prepare them for that reality at all.
It's inconvenient for us. You need to remember allowance day, keep cash on hand, and manually track everything. There's no autopilot option.
What Digital Allowances Offer
The Digital Approach Has Its Own Strengths
It mirrors their financial future. By the time our kids are adults, cash might be even rarer than it is now. Teaching them to manage digital money is teaching them the system they'll actually use.
Tracking is automatic. Digital platforms show exactly where money goes, how much is saved, and how close they are to goals. No manual counting required.
Parents can automate it. Set it once, and allowance happens every week without you remembering. Adjust amounts remotely. Add bonuses from anywhere.
It can simulate growth. Some apps let you add "interest" to savings or match contributions, teaching concepts like compound growth in a hands-on way.
Digital Has Tradeoffs Too
It feels abstract to young kids. Numbers on a screen don't register the same way as physical coins, especially for children under eight.
It requires technology. You need devices, internet, and some tech literacy. That's not always simple or desirable.
Spending might feel too easy. One-click purchases don't create the same "am I sure?" moment that handing over cash does.
Our Take: Match Method to Age
After watching families try both approaches, here's the pattern we keep seeing work:
Ages 5-7: Start With Both
Young kids need concrete experiences, so give them cash they can hold, count, and sort into jars. But don't wait to introduce digital—even at this age, you can start showing them both sides.
How to do it: Give them their main allowance in cash for hands-on learning, but also set up a simple digital savings goal they can watch grow on screen. This builds understanding of both physical and digital money from the start.
Why it works: They're learning what money is in its most tangible form while also seeing that money can exist digitally. This dual exposure prevents the "digital money isn't real money" misconception later.
Ages 8-10: Introduce Digital Gradually
Keep some cash around, but start a digital allowance account too. Let them see how both work. Explain the connection.
Why it works: They're ready for slightly more abstract thinking, but still benefit from tangible experiences.
Ages 11+: Shift Primarily Digital
At this point, move most of their allowance digital. Keep small amounts of cash for specific situations, but let them practice the skills they'll use as teens and adults.
Why it works: They're preparing for real bank accounts, debit cards, and online purchases.
Making Your Choice
Here's a simple framework we've found helpful:
Choose Cash If:
- Your child is under 8
- You want the simplest possible system
- Technology feels like one more thing to manage
- Your child has lots of local, in-person spending opportunities
Choose Digital If:
- Your child is 8 or older
- You want automatic tracking and reminders
- You're comfortable with age-appropriate screen time
- You're preparing them for teen banking soon
Not Sure? Try Both:
- Use cash for weekly spending money
- Use digital for savings goals
- See what clicks for your kid
- Adjust as they grow
For more on combining both approaches, check out our guide to the hybrid allowance method.
What Really Matters
Here's what we've learned talking to dozens of families: the method matters less than consistency.
A simple cash system you actually use beats a sophisticated digital setup you forget about. And vice versa.
The best allowance system is the one that:
- Fits your family's rhythm
- Matches your child's developmental stage
- You'll actually stick with
- Creates regular money conversations
Whether you choose cash, digital, or a mix of both, you're already doing the important work by thinking about how to teach these skills.
Next Steps
Going digital? We put together a step-by-step guide for parents starting with digital allowances. Read the setup guide here.
Want both? The hybrid approach combines the best of each method. Learn how it works.
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